If there is no valuable sort criteria for your needs, then you can also do this:
Add a “number/value” field to your dynamic collection data and enter 1, 2, 3, 4, 5…and so on to the items itself. You can then use the “Sort Order” to order items as you entered them corresponding to the blog entry etc.
it does, and infact I had done that already I just couldnt figure out how to tell the dyanmic list module to sort the items on page! but thanks to your brilliant help its all in order now!