Hi Sheena, the way to do this is to construct your own player.
The simplest way is to use Youtube’s native embed code.
Create a Youtube ID text field in the CMS
Store just your video ID, nothing else
Drop an Embed on the page and paste in your Youtube embed code.
+ Add Field to replace the ID with your CMS-stored field
Change the querystring settings, etc in the embed for the features you want
For settings like Autoplay you can create separate fields if you want to control that by video. An easy way is to use an options field with 1 and 0 or on and off depeneding on the parameter’s requirements, and just embed that field.
Note autoplay generally won’t work in modern browsers with muted off, so look into that.